Avoiding false dichotomies
Inner dialogue, walking down the sidewalk
A discussion I have with myself a lot
Advice for getting along with your kids
Lessons learned from the first 10 years
Two 19th-century missionary memoirs in China
Life for an American family in 1860s China
Relaxing my standards on housekeeping
Getting to “good enough”
Children’s appearance is over-controlled
Giving up control over choices that don’t belong to me
Tool: “Is this causing a problem?”
A method for not sweating the small stuff
Coaching kids as they learn to climb
Helping kids learn to climb things that are at the edge of their ability
Still donating half
Keeping donations high as our income rose and fell
Conversations I often have about parenting
Topics that come up a lot