Putting in some work to get the behavior you want
Children and parenting
Some careers are overhyped to children
You will probably not have a career on the stage
The best kind of music to learn is social music
Will they ever stay up late playing this kind of music for fun?
How much to coerce children?
What’s “for their own good”?
How much time and money does an additional child take?
Some things scale, others don’t.
How did we decide to have a kid?
…and then some more kids?
Breastfeeding: might be nice, might be surprisingly terrible
The wide range of experiences
Childbirth location and safety
How much does it matter for you and for the baby?
Consent often isn’t straightforward
What I’ve learned from kids and adults
Interview with Kat Woods: decision-making about having kids
Realizing what you don’t want